My 58 years on this earth have taken me on many journeys, jobs and relationships. From military to media, catering to running a charity, training to the London Taxi trade and a few start-ups for good measure.
I have certainly not always been a Happish person and my (one and only) blog below exposes a little more. Happish is a journey and a state of mind, derived from experience and guidance from others who have helped me. Click the Happish button to find out more.
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The State of Happish
It’s a little visited gem of a place based between “I’d rather be a green eyed monster” and “let’s not and just say we did”.
Happish is a state of mind.
It’s the point at which you realise that you have done everything you can to be the best at what you do and accept that that is actually sufficient.
The day you wake up and are content with what lies ahead and you rest your head in the knowledge that you have done your bit and don’t dread the alarm tone ringing in your ear only a few hours later.
I had been living in the wrong state of mind for years, always jealous of that lot, resenting those over there and wondering why I wasn’t driving that blokes car. Nothing wrong with Aspiring to further yourself but not at the expense of contentment.
Eventually I realised that the more I resented others the worse I became at living or enjoying my life.
Ask me how I feel and I’d say well, let me tell you how bad my life is.
Then I met Mustn’t Grumble.
What an inspiration, always ready to smile and make others do the same
Never talking about negatives or how hard it was.
Mustn’t grumble became my inspiration and he introduced me to the State of Happish.
I have now visited the State and live there most of the year.
Occasionally I go back to pity island to see the old folk but I soon get bored of the continued moaning and groaning so I head back to Happish sharpish.
I now coach others in the art of mustn’t grumble and provide guided tours to Happish.